Every second interethnic marriage lasts for 5 years

Street Butyrsky Val, 18. Here is the only one in Moscow registry office where the register in Russia on marriages with foreigners. Conveyor weddings - thirty or forty pairs of honeymooners on a daily basis. Of these, about half - Russia ladies marriage with foreign suitors. Holiday in white, the beginning of a new life. All of them now think: Well, here we have it all to be happy and beautiful. Alas ... According to statistics, in the last decade, one in five of Russia's bride married to a foreigner. Every second inter-ethnic marriage is falling apart after five or six years. In search of a beautiful life weaker sex migrate to European countries, Japan, South Korea, Arab Emirates, and more often - in the United States. Young Muscovite Lolita Luba also dreamed of happiness in a luxurious house on the ocean ... With a cheerful cowboy from Ohio she met in Moscow. He called himself a champion car racing, he knew how to look chic, promised American paradise - once and for all life. Champagne river, baskets of flowers, expensive restaurants ... American subdued her with tenderness, care, and most importantly - with dreams of the future detyah.Posle three years of dating Lolita finally decided to get married. Played a magnificent wedding, followed by Patrick at once took his young wife in the States. For the sake of family happiness Lolita left relatives, friends and successful biznes.O past life husband Lolita learned by accident, shortly after the birth of his daughter. It turned out that a few years ago, they really worked, state police - the threat to kill his first wife. Until then the court did not reach: Patrick just put on a psychiatric uchet.S birth of a daughter - charming blonde Emily - as if his illness worsened. Merry cowboy has become a household tyrant. Daily scandals have become part of their lives. Patrick Garmin beat his wife drove home and sat alone for hours with devochkoy.Lolita understood: the mental state of Patrick is that he is dangerous for their daughter to the police, doctors and lawyers. Everyone said the same thing: a family affair, disassemble sami.V Eventually the couple divorced. Patrick's daughter left the court. He was a U.S. citizen, and under U.S. law he has every right to take the child from the marriage with inostrankoy.Posle Court Lolita secretly took her daughter and flew away with the girl in Moscow. This is a serious violation of American law. Crimes of this kind fall under the heading of "kidnapping" (abduction) and punished very harshly, up to life imprisonment. Lolita Garmin-Luba all knew it. The flight to Russia was a gesture of despair. She just had no other choice. Two years later, Patrick kidnapped daughter of a Moscow apartment of the former zheny.Nachalsya international scandal. First, U.S. officials were behind the mountain, "my boyfriend". But the court in Ohio has finally paid attention to the psychological disorders Patrick Garmin. Luba won the trial. Emilia finally gave my mother. Now they live in the United States. Patrick Garmin does not punished for the abduction of the child. He even occasionally allowed to visit her daughter. This is the most difficult hours for Lolity.Vyyti married to a foreigner is not a problem. Prohibitions of the socialist past have disappeared along with the Soviet Union. In the 60's and 70's, however, is quite easy marriages were permitted our compatriot with young people from Third World countries, mostly Arabs or afrikantsami.V USSR were not encouraged, even family ties with his comrades from fraternal socialist countries - for example, the Poles, Germans, Hungarians. And it is quite wrong for the life and career are considered attempts to charm the masters of Western Europe, the USA and Canada. You could fly from the Komsomol, the party, and consequently, of the Institute or with a good raboty.Seychas nothing to fear, and Russia's current generation of young women of marriageable age wants to conquer the world. The vast majority of them consider: the easiest way to do this - marriage to a foreigner. Dating brides have long been in Russia's advantage kommertsiey.Odnako among outwardly respectable gentlemen quite often come across bedding adventure lovers, the sexually immoral, or just crooks. Amuse with the Russian beauty, and immediately their brosayut.No it's still not the biggest danger. Much worse is another category of suitors. Typically, this oriental beauties who are fluent in Russian and know how to skillfully look after. Their generosity to our girls, especially from the province, just umopomrachitelna.Za gifts and declarations of love should be a proposal to celebrate a wedding at home of the groom. Upon arrival at the bride's passport immediately taken away - ostensibly to comply with various formalities. This is the beginning of this koshmara.Posle in modern slaves two ways - either in the harem of a rich Muslim, or in a brothel. The second is more likely. No documents, the chances of escape are minimal. Local police have no one looking for: come voluntarily, and tochka.Inostrannye grooms rarely invite brides to their homeland before the wedding. In 99 cases out of a hundred they come to the bride in Russia. Their range, incidentally, is not so wide. According to sociologists, most of these people are not rich at all. Typical middle-class people who could not create a normal family in their homeland. Old bachelors or divorced, almost always middle-aged men. The average age of grooms in the market - 45 years. Many suitors with complexes because of any physical defects: small size, for example, or too much weight. Many African-Americans, Asians, Indians. Whites Rossiyanka for them - a gift from the country sudby.Kovboi Marlborough, German brewers, prim British, Scandinavian hot guys - nearly all applicants of hands and hearts of our beauties are usually operated through Russia marriage agencies. The choice of brides is enormous - for every taste, wealth and vozrast.Potentsialnoy bride to be easy. Of the hundreds of agencies need to choose which like (all addresses are in the internet). Then there bring a summary of data about yourself (resume) and, of course, fotografii.Dalee - select country and the nationality of the future elect. On the priorities of our ladies in any marriage agency will say about the same thing: in the first place Americans, then the British, Turks, Egyptians, French. Germans traded worse: deters them skupost.Iz other Europeans are not specifically listed Finns, Swedes and other Scandinavians. First, the climate: they, too cold. Second, the unexpectedly high for the wealthy countries of suicide statistics. Thirdly, the same skupost.Na their expenses Russian wife should make their own. Find a job without a good knowledge of the language's country of residence is incredibly difficult. If you are lucky, our compatriots with the diplomas of doctors, economists, designers are working dishwashers, cleaners, at best - nurses in elderly patients or maids. Arranged by specialty - a rare success. Knowledge of the language and traditions of the country in which to live - a prerequisite in order to find a decent job. But it's not just that. If a spouse is difficult to explain - family relationships, according to sociologists, are doomed in 90 cases out of a hundred. Furthermore, we must thoroughly examine the law of the country of residence - of course, before we were married and even more to the decision to start detey.Vo adult games, children always suffer. When breaking down inter-ethnic marriages in Europe or America, it is likely that the child will be left without a mother. During the divorce foreign courts almost always leave the children to his father. But in Russia is the opposite. Thousands of children from marriages between Russian women with Africans, Arabs or Asians growing up without fathers. The young dad learn from us, or are under contract. Suitable time, and they return home, usually without their white-skinned friends and common children. A resident of Moscow region with an exotic name for the city Ljubercy Fernandush de Castro, long known that the husband-Congolese never take her children on the continent. He could only finish my studies in Moscow, and then - the homeland and, most likely, another semya.Natasha long ago realized that her marriage will soon burst like a soap bubble. Go away for good in the Congo, she did not want: there is another life, other customs and a lot of her husband's relatives, who, according to local custom, has the right to live with her in one hizhine.Ni a psychologist, lawyer or the owner of a marriage agency will not be able to advise prospective wives of foreigners how to behave correctly. But still there are some general rules for a successful wedding game. Discovering best not to the marriage announcements in the Internet and in person: in foreign travel, traveling, in the resort or a friendly party. And if possible, not in Russia, and her future husband at home: there he will behave much more natural than gostyah.Nado carefully examine the laws of the country, where he lives her future husband, especially in the family code: division of property and children of divorce, such as . Paramount importance marriage contract. It must be correctly prescribed conditions of divorce. For women it is a great chance not to remain in poverty if the family ruhnet.Pomogat our Cinderella abroad are merely trying to voluntary organizations. Judiciary and public officials to Russia before them, with rare exceptions, does not care. Chance to become a man of second-class large, precisely because our Zemlyachka there is absolutely no rights are not protected by law and Russia, as a rule, are not fluent in the laws of a foreign country, its traditions, culture and language. More than half of marriages with foreigners come to an end in disaster. 20-30 thousand per year in Russia on return home with a broken heart and without a penny. How many compatriots after the divorce is in the distant and near countries without a family, work and hope, how many of them gets on the panel or in dens - this is just nobody knows.