How is the nature of the child?

Did you know that in the first three years of life lays the foundation for the future character of the child? This does not mean that the character will continue to change - it is formed and changed throughout the human life, but the trends are already at this age. In the direction of these trends, the parents must be involved intimately. By raising a baby in the first years of life should be treated as carefully as to its feeding, instilling in him a reasonable habits and skills. If you do not educate them at an early age, then later you will have to re-educate the child, but to do it is always much harder. The character is not given by nature - it consists in uniting the various properties, formed under the influence of life and education. In the early stages of character development is important perception of the positive experience of behavior. The educator or parent should their behavior to create a vivid experience to follow. If your child attends kindergarten, it should be borne in mind that it is important and positive experience of his peers, especially the leaders. Selection of children, which should be equal, may be determined by public opinion and the children do not coincide with the evaluation of an educator - this should not be forgotten, as the feature of the psychology of children can lead to not only imitate the good examples, but also negative. Parents must maintain constant communication with the teachers of kindergarten or nursery. Sometimes parents think that while the child is small, it all is permitted, and they miss the time when instilled reasonable habits. Observe the kids, and you will find in their behavior manifestations of zoological primitive young one. They are, for all its natural endowments require special attention in the acquisition of skills: washing hands, walk-in clean clothes, eat, sleep and play in a certain time. At the same age kids should get a set of his moral behavior: a respectful and friendly attitude to adults, to learn the concept of discipline, to learn to share with loved ones, to sponsor an animal and take care of them. In the youngest age a child should obey their parents unconditionally, otherwise it will be difficult to cope with it later, and six - eight years he can completely lose obedience. It is important to teach children to play independently, cherish and love his toys. Tell a kid, stories about what he might himself come up for the game and how interesting to be in her lead, giving his orders to the soldiers, rockets, flying airplanes and helicopters, including elephants, bears, bunnies ... Do not accustom your baby to play only when there is company. Playing the child itself must, if not behind in development. So he creates his own world and growing identity but, if the parents have the desire, they may sometimes take part in the game. In all classes with the children try to remain calm and not angry, even when not get something or broken, shattered. Kid should be well understood that the tears will not help, that should be neat, thrifty and cautious. And how to talk with children, if you put forward any demands? We must learn the authoritative tone - it should be, when you order, calm, without rudeness and irritation, without pleading notes. No anger, no shouting, no pleading, no blandishment, but a serious business order must express the family discipline. Neither you nor the children should have no doubt that you are entitled to such an order, and each parent must learn to give, not to be lazy and do not shy away from the intentions of peace. Over time, the disposal will be the usual traditional form and you will learn to give it different shades: shades directive or irony, or council, or the hint. Learn to distinguish between real and fictitious child's needs, and then your parent will become available in a pleasant form of communication between you and your child. Necessary to develop a child's habit to carry out the disposal of educators - is not only facilitates his upbringing, but also allows you to save your nerves, prevent moods and bad deeds. Such education shall establish the seriousness and mutual respect, and it is not contrary to being a child affectionate, gentle, play and be naughty sometimes. To educate the preventive and polite children, it is necessary in the first year of life to observe mutual sensitivity and avoid rough games, even obsession, rude behavior and expressions. Each year the requirements for the development of intellect and culture of behavior should be increased. When forming the character, pay attention to the form of its manifestation. The early stages of character development style of behavior in some children may be determined by temper, impulsiveness, others - the slowness, the third - shyness. All excessive negative manifestations can correct the forming children's ability to arbitrarily control his behavior. The character is a total manifestation of the many properties of the child and is associated with its overall development. Take care of yourself and your children, be wise with educators and remember: the involvement of parents in shaping the character and intellect of children is the basis of parental authority.